Get into it

Admit it, sometimes you have sex when you aren’t really up for it. You’re tired or cranky and you agreed to make him happy. If that’s the case, don’t lie on your side and let him do all the work. Anytime you have sex you should get into it. It’s a small part of your day time-wise but a big part of your relationship, so invest yourself fully. If it’s uncomfortable, change positions, if you’re getting bored, readjust yourself or change your mindset. Sex is just as mental as it is physical, and he’ll be able to tell if you’re really into it or not. Once you fully immerse yourself in sex you’ll see that it will get better for both of you.