You already know women love foreplay—but several ladies tell us they want more of what comes before that. One even coined a term for it: Pre-foreplay.
“I’d happily let my boyfriend kiss my neck, shoulders, and stomach for hours, but he's prone to moving to my lower erogenous zones within minutes,” says one woman.
Another respondent explains: “Instead of being like an instant on/off switch, sex for me ideally involves some ‘pre-foreplay’ like cuddling to refocus, then lots of foreplay, then intercourse. I need more time to have an orgasm.”
(She’s right. Research shows that women may need up to 45 minutes of fooling around to reach climax. For step-by-step instructions on how to get her there, check out How to Pleasure a Woman.)
There’s no set timeframe for how long you should spend in each stage of sex—just try to avoid making a beeline below the belt. Linger on her body parts you may sometimes neglect—her neck, earlobes, shoulders, and back—on your way downtown, says Kerner.
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