“Everything about you turns me on.”

Tell her she turns you on and then lead with an unexpected attribute—like her hair, eyes, or curves—so it doesn’t sound too cheesy, saysAstroglide sexpert Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D. “No matter what her body type, a woman likes to feel like a woman, and wants her guy to think she encompasses everything positive about that,” Fulbright says. “There’s a certain vulnerability in letting her know that you notice her and that you find her so lovely.”