Make it All Access

Start with her on her hands and knees, and then slide under her like an auto mechanic. You can then spend time warming her up as you have access to everything she wants touched and licked. "Kisses, breast and nipple stimulation, nibbles down the inner thigh are all part of dining out," says Shanna Katz, M.Ed., a board-certified sexologist and author ofOral Sex That Will Blow Her Mind. "Wait until your partner is hot and heavy, begging for you to go between her legs, rather than going in too quickly and killing the mood." Watch for her to lower her body up and down, or move it side to side, as you ramp up the foreplay. It will only be minutes before she is imploring you to do more.