Women's sexuality is far more complex

Women's sexuality is far more complex than men’s,” he says. “And because of this, women have worked to find diverse and creative ways to get themselves off. Use it as inspiration to push the boundaries of partnered sex.”

Before you worry that you need join in on something that's not quite up your sexual alley, consider this: “How she masturbates usually looks very different from what sex with you looks like—99% of the time. This is herprivate practice, and it doesn't mean you have to bring a teddy bear to bed,” says Ghose.