Ditch the ABCs

Lay down on a bed or other comfortable surface. Have her squat and sit on your face while you provide the oral stimulation. She's now in a position to focus solely on the pleasure you are providing, so step up your technique by tracing letters with your tongue. "Instead of running through from A to Z, which can make it hard to choose favorite tongue motions, try a few letters at a time on repeat, or work on spelling a favorite word," says Katz. "Or use your lips to provide some sexy suction: on her lips, hood, or even clit. It gives your jaw and tongue a break, and can help draw more blood to the area, helping everything to get even more engorged." Just remember to take a few seconds every now and then to breathe.