Go All Day

While facing each other in bed, scoot down until you are between her legs and can rest your head on her inner thigh. With this position you are comfortable enough to lavish her with the time and attention she really craves. "While some women might want less time spent between their legs, the vast majority want more," says Katz. "So if you're using cunnilingus as foreplay, consider doubling, tripling, or even multiplying your current time by six or seven." If you're using it as the entree of the meal, it means you might be there a while until she's finished. Finishing doesn't necessarily mean climaxing—some women cannot orgasm simply from oral stimulation—but it does mean going until she pulls you from the region and demands your attention elsewhere.