Back in your dating days, you probably put a lot more thought into your courtship and sex life. Though you’re off the market now, steal a page from your single-guy playbook and plan a romantic rendezvous.
“I’m a big proponent of scheduled sex,” says Jill McDevitt, Ph.D., who teaches sex-ed for adults. “Most people balk when I suggest this, but dates take planning, pre-thought, scheduling, and are fun!”
You used to pull out all the stops to impress your date in hopes of getting laid: A clean-shaven face. Roses at the ready. A shirt you actually ironed! The more effort you put into planning, the more you’ll build anticipation and excitement—which can make all the difference between feeling “too tired for sex,” and your wife slipping on (and stripping off) her special panties.
0 comments:
Post a Comment